I’ve got fans! Kind of.

In  a comment in the Power vectors thread, Vanita said:

You were useless (I met with you several times at Microsoft) and it looks like you still are. I am glad to hear you are gone – it made no sense for Microsoft to pay you a hefty salary given the “work” you were doing. All this high level bullshit…

I let the comment through because it’s a great illustration of the kinds of attitude and environment that’s disappointingly common at Microsoft these days, unwilling to take the time to understand new ideas and so threatened by anything “high level” that might actually lead to a change in the system, that the response is to hide behind the cloak of anonymity to spread around virulent negative abuse in completely inappropriate situations.  Yeah, that’ll help.

Imagine working in an environment where this kind of behavior is widely tolerated.  When I was at Microsoft, I got reactions similar to this from maybe 5-10% of the people, and so on large mailing lists or with the 200+ people who attended a mashup the odds were extremely high that somebody would jump in with some garbage like this — with superficially more polite phrasing if their names were associated with it, but still the same mix of knee-jerk uncomprehending rejection and personal attack.

And bear in mind the impact this has not just on the person receiving the abuse (me), but all those witnessing it.  No wonder so many people at Microsoft are unhappy and frustrated.


Comments

5 responses to “I’ve got fans! Kind of.”

  1. Darth Sideous Avatar
    Darth Sideous

    Use your anger Vanita! Join us! Your anger will make you powerful. Or something.

    What are you afraid of?

  2. In any big company you are always going to get people like this, and MSFT especially so because it is so “engineering” focused – that’s what made them the money, and still does, so any type of “change” must be “bad”. I feel sorry for people like this, as this kind of attitude (dont think, just do) only addresses simplistic problems (or bigger problems in a simplistic way).

    Anyway, I’d love to know what people think of your previous contributions, which I wouldnt class as “useless”. You do have fans of the other variety 🙂

  3. Actually, you do have fans. I was clearing my inbox today, and I saw some emails from you. We had exchanged a couple of emails because you had noticed me (a girl) posting on one of the DLs. I tried to look you up and saw that grey button on your status – thats how I noticed you’ve left!
    Though we never worked together – I enjoyed the email exchange. Goodluck with your future prospects! – Michelle

  4. hi, fans! *wave* to Michelle, MikeA, and the somehow-familiar Mr. Sideous.

    I was exchanging email with Michelle laughing about how we met. On some DLs, it was rare enough that a women posted that if I noticed somebody new showed up who seemed from their name to be female I’d send mail saying hi and expressing appreciation, and (if I had something useful to say) trying to validate or build on the point they were trying to make. Often these random connections lead to new perspectives (several people told me things like “this is the first time a GM ever contacted me when he didn’t want something”) and sometimes synergies get sparked.

  5. I got another spectacularly lame anonymous “fan” comment in the advice to people thinking about their next job thread:

    Boring. Why did they pay you that much at MS for this type of insight?

    rrrrright. anyhow, it didn’t make sense there, so i figured i’d put it here.

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